4 Things to Never Say to a Friend Going Through a Divorce

If you are among the more than 50% of Americans who have experienced divorce, you know what a painful process it can be.  Whether you are the one initiating the divorce or the one experiencing the shock of your life, divorce has a grief process all its own and a pain that can take on different forms for different people.

If you are among the 40-something percent of Americans who haven’t been through a divorce, but are friends with someone in the first group, I know how hard it can be to watch someone you love go through such upheaval and pain.  You may even hope that you can be the one who soothes and heals your brokenhearted friend.