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How to Say No to Toxic Family Biblically

Toxic family have a way of making you feel like you owe them something. Whether it’s overt demands or covert manipulation, their requests often leave you feeling more obligated than appreciated.   Perhaps you struggle with a brother…
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How Did Jesus Handle Narcissists

How would Jesus handle narcissists? When asked, most people (even Christians) would say that Jesus’ main qualities were meekness and mildness—someone who taught us to turn the other cheek when evil is perpetrated against us. But would…
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Signs of a Christian Narcissist

Are you being fooled by a narcissist who calls themselves a Christian? There are signs of a Christian narcissist that you need to watch out for.  When I was younger my mother and my grandmother used to have beautiful bowls of fruit sitting…

6 Things Satan Doesn’t Want You to Know

If you’ve been a follower of Christ for any length of time, you know that you have an enemy who hates you. His main aim to kill, steal, and destroy anything of value in your life (John 10:10). There are times in our lives where it feels…
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How to Fight Negative Thinking About Someone

Are you a Christian who is struggling with thinking negative thoughts about someone? I’m not talking about the occasional criticism, I’m talking about a constant internal dialog of complaints and judgments. As much as you want to, you…
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How to Forgive Yourself for the Thoughts You Think

Do You Ever Think, “If Someone Knew What I Was Thinking Right Now, They’d Lose All Respect for Me?” We all battle with our thoughts. Maybe you’re fighting thoughts of lust, hatred, or negativity. Maybe you’re struggling with…

How to Make Room for Jesus

Is Christ at home in your heart? Do you struggle with the busyness of life and are left at the end of the day with the guilt of another Christ-less day? I love my home. It’s a humble, tiny, two bedroom townhome that my husband and I…
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How to Get Rid of a Critical Spirit

There are Two schools of thought amoung christians when it comes to criticism.   The first group  “Says judge not lest you be judged” (matthew 7:1) The second group says “call it out” Matthew 18:15) While both are true, both…

3 Dangers of Declarations

We’re taught to think like God.  We’re told to talk like Jesus. So it would make sense to declare that which God declares since we are his workmanship.   Does saying I decree or I declare before a statement automatically…
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What to do When You Don’t Feel Loved by God

Do you know in your head that God loves you, but you long to feel it in your heart? For many who have endured a loveless marriage or a childhood home void of much needed love, it can be difficult to feel God’s love. And if you’ve ever…