Discover the truth about Christian narcissism.
Discover the truth about Christian narcissism.
Christian Narcissist Collection
In this collection, we will uncover the truth about Christian narcissism and provide biblical counseling. You’ll learn how to heal codependency, recognize the signs of a toxic person, and gain the expert guidance you need when dealing with narcissism and codependency.
online course
Conquering Codependency
It’s time to embrace your God-given identity & enjoy mutually fruitful relationships! Are you ready to shift from people-pleasing to God-praising and learn how to stop relying on others to relieve your anxieties?
freebie
What’s my Temperament?
Knowing your temperament is like having an instruction manual to understand exactly what makes you tick. Get to know how fearfully and wonderfully made you are TODAY!
video
The WORST Narcissist of All (Christian Covert Narcissist)
There’s an even worse narcissist than the grandiose. This narcissist flies under the radar and pretends to be a Christian. This narcissist is the ultimate ‘wolves in sheep’s clothing’.
blog posts
God Is Exposing the Narcissist No One Talks About
Not all narcissists seek attention or sympathy. An antagonistic narcissist thrives on conflict, turning conversations into competitions and using manipulation to maintain control. Discover the warning signs, how this pattern often appears in Christian environments, and practical biblical strategies for setting healthy boundaries and protecting your peace.
God Is Revealing the Hidden Cost of Being Honest with a Narcissist
Have you ever left a conversation feeling confused, replaying every word and wondering what went wrong? In healthy relationships, honesty builds connection. But in toxic relationship dynamics, honesty can be twisted, rejected, or used against you. Learn the hidden costs of constantly explaining yourself, carrying emotional burdens, and losing your sense of self—and why the problem may not be your communication at all.
7 Clues to Spot a “Christian” Manipulator
Manipulators rarely reveal themselves openly. Instead, they leave behind subtle clues that slowly distort conversations, relationships, and even your sense of reality. In this blog, discover 7 powerful signs of manipulative people, including guilt tactics, blame shifting, gaslighting, and spiritual manipulation, so you can recognize unhealthy patterns and protect yourself emotionally and spiritually.
Have you ever heard of an oxymoron?
An oxymoron is a self-contradicting word or group of words—like “jumbo shrimp,” “awfully good,” and “only choice.”
If you were just learning the language, some of these figures of speech might confuse you, and rightfully so. How can the word “jumbo” be used to describe something so small?
The same is true for an interaction with a person who calls themselves a Christian but displays polar opposite qualities. It’s like an oxymoron; it just doesn’t make sense.
But who are we to judge whether someone is a Christian or not… after all, we don’t truly know their heart… or do we?
Or are we supposed to judge those who claim to be in the faith?
After all, a Christian is someone who has received Jesus as their Lord and Savior. They are, as the name implies, “Christ followers.”
You can recognize them by their adherence to biblical principles, their selflessness, their compassion for others, their surrender to God’s will, and their willingness to follow Jesus no matter the cost.
So, it’s understandable that when you combine the words “narcissist” and “Christian,” they seem to form an oxymoron.
And this is where you may feel like you’re losing your mind.
Maybe you’re confused by the fact that they call themselves Christians, or perhaps you’ve even seen them respond to an altar call or attend church more than you.
They may even know scripture… but it’s often used to suit their agenda.
The problem is, narcissists usually know enough scripture to be dangerous, but they lack the desire to give up what pleases them.
This contradiction can leave you feeling confused and conflicted about how to handle these “wolves in sheep’s clothing.”
Unfortunately, living life with these confusing contradictions can lead to:
Lack of Discernment
Living with a narcissist can leave you baffled. In an effort to be a loving person, you might ignore the signs of a toxic individual simply because they call themselves a “Christian.”
Questionable decisions
Being influenced by a narcissist often leads to the need for biblical counseling to address narcissism, as you may no longer be able to distinguish truth from lies.
Wounded emotions
If you find yourself triggered by almost everyone, it’s likely you need healing from codependency. Narcissists have a way of keeping you walking on eggshells.
It makes you ask the pressing question… Can a narcissist be a Christian?
So, if you’re ready to gain clarity, a biblical perspective, and find healing from codependency, dive in… God has so much more for you.
Think of this content as your biblical counseling for narcissism.
Hi, I’m Kris!
I am a Christian counselor, coach, author, speaker, and content creator.
I spend my days writing, coaching, and creating videos that help you be a better Christian.
On my journey, I have authored three books—Build a Beautiful Life Out of Broken Pieces, The Sacred Seven, and Make it Matter—created nine online courses (and counting), and published hundreds of videos, all from my tiny townhome in New Jersey while surrounded by my ever-increasing tribe of fur babies. I also get the opportunity to speak at women’s events and churches across the country.
God has allowed me to help thousands of women turn their focus away from the toxic people sent to destroy them and turn their hearts to God.
My passion lies in equipping you to defeat life’s devils, grow in faith, and answer God’s call.
That’s what I do, but I know you’d prefer to know who I am…..
