Have you ever found yourself crying out to God, asking, “Why are You letting this person get away with everything they’ve done to me?” If so, you’re not alone. It’s one of the hardest questions to wrestle with, especially when the pain feels so overwhelming.

But here’s the good news: God sees everything, and He is a God of justice. In this post, we’re diving into practical and powerful ways to pray both for and against the narcissist in your life. Yes, that’s biblical—and we’ll explore why. By the end, you’ll feel equipped to approach God with prayers that align with His will, releasing the weight of your hurt and trusting Him to move on your behalf. These powerful prayers in the Bible can help bring clarity, justice, and healing.

Life with a Narcissist Feels Like Chaos

Whether the narcissist in your life is a spouse, parent, friend, or colleague, one thing is certain: life with them is an unstable, emotional rollercoaster. Their lies, manipulation, and betrayal can leave you furious, broken, and unsure of how to pray.

But take heart—God’s Word provides both clarity and direction. Romans 12:19 says, “Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, ‘Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.’” This promise reminds us that God will handle justice in His perfect way and timing. Turning to powerful prayers in the Bible can help you trust His plan.

Here are some powerful prayers in the Bible you can use to stop a Narcissist

Praying for Justice: Trusting God’s Reckoning

Imagine standing by the ocean, looking out over calm waters. On the surface, everything seems peaceful, but beneath, a strong current tugs at you. That’s what dealing with a narcissist feels like—their manipulation pulls you into confusion and frustration. But here’s the truth: you don’t have to fight this current alone.

One powerful prayer is to ask for God’s reckoning. This means asking Him to expose lies, reveal hidden motives, and bring consequences in His way. It’s not about revenge but about trusting God to bring light into the darkness.

Psalm 28:3-4 says:
“Do not drag me off with the wicked, with the workers of evil, who speak peace with their neighbors while evil is in their hearts. Give to them according to their work and according to the evil of their deeds.”

This scripture reminds us that God sees deception and will repay accordingly. Similarly, Galatians 6:7-8 tells us, “Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap.” The narcissist may appear to “get away with it” for now, but no one escapes God’s justice.

Praying for Reproof: Exposing Darkness

Imagine someone who walks unchecked, leaving chaos everywhere they go. Their harmful behavior seems to have no consequences. How do you respond? By praying for God’s reproof—a holy unveiling of their actions. This type of prayer asks God to shine a light so bright that their behavior can no longer stay hidden.

In 1 Corinthians 5:5, Paul commands the Corinthian church to hand a man over to Satan for the destruction of his flesh, “so that his spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord.” This severe action wasn’t out of hatred but out of love—a way to bring the man to repentance. Similarly, when we pray for reproof, we ask God to expose harmful behaviors with the ultimate goal of restoration.

Praying for Recompense: Trusting God to Restore

Have you ever felt like the narcissist stole everything from you—your peace, confidence, time, or future? It’s easy to wonder if you’ll ever regain what’s been lost. But the Bible speaks of recompense, a divine repayment not just for what was taken but often in double measure.

Hebrews 10:30 says, “Vengeance is mine; I will repay,” says the Lord. And Joel 2:25 promises, “I will restore to you the years that the swarming locust has eaten.” Imagine getting back what was stolen and seeing it returned in abundance. God’s restoration is more than a repayment—it’s a renewal of what was broken.

Praying for the Narcissist: Release, Repentance, and Restoration

While it’s important to pray against harmful behaviors, it’s equally critical to pray for the narcissist. Why? Because God’s heart is always for repentance and redemption, even for those who’ve caused great pain.

1. Prayers for Release
Ask God to break the demonic strongholds operating in the narcissist’s life. Luke 10:19 reminds us, “I have given you authority to tread on serpents and scorpions and over all the power of the enemy.” This is not about confronting the narcissist directly but about battling in the spiritual realm, asking God to release them from pride, control, or deceit.

2. Prayers for Repentance
2 Peter 3:9 says, “The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise… but is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should reach repentance.” Pray for the narcissist to recognize their sin, turn to God, and seek His forgiveness.

3. Prayers for Restoration
Isaiah 55:7 says, “Let the wicked forsake his way… let him return to the Lord, that he may have compassion on him.”Pray for their restoration—not necessarily in your relationship but in their relationship with God. True restoration begins with repentance and submission to Him.

Guard Your Heart

While praying for the narcissist is important, it’s equally essential to set boundaries. You are not responsible for fixing or saving them—that’s God’s job. Your role is to guard your heart, honor God, and align your actions with biblical truth. Through powerful prayers in the Bible, you can find strength and protection while trusting God to do the rest.

Final Thoughts

When we bring our pain and struggles before God, He meets us with justice, grace, and restoration. Whether or not the narcissist changes, God promises to heal and restore you. Trust Him to fight your battles, and rest in His perfect timing.

Heavenly Father,

I lift up the one struggling with narcissism, asking for their release from every stronghold that binds them. Lord, bring them to repentance and restore their hearts to You. Break the chains of pride and deceit, and let Your justice and mercy shine through. I trust in Your power and promises.

In Jesus’ name, Amen.

If you’ve ever wondered what God does when He’s had enough of a narcissist’s actions, check out this episode here. And don’t forget to grab your free Narcissist Survival Guide to equip yourself with tools to navigate these challenges biblically.