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This Test Exposes a ‘Christian’ Narcissist (Most Don’t See It)

What if the most dangerous person in your life is the one who sounds the most like Jesus? They quote scripture, pray out loud, and even speak into your life, yet you leave every interaction doubting yourself and questioning them.

In this video, I am bringing together three of my most powerful teachings to show you exactly how God exposes these wolves in sheep’s clothing, along with one concrete test you can use today.

Part 1: This 7-Second Test Exposes a Christian Narcissist

You see, you are likely a caring, empathetic, and giving person who enjoys being of value in a relationship.

By contrast, narcissists are fragile, self-centered, egotistical, envious exploiters.

Their focus is not on pleasing you or growing the relationship; their focus is strictly on self-protection and self-preservation.

If it doesn’t serve them, benefit them, or support them, they’re simply not interested.

So let’s shift that dynamic.

Instead of focusing on what to say to get them to change, let’s focus on what to say to reveal them so you can finally put the confusion in your mind to rest. Are you ready?

We’re going to talk about three scenarios that expose the Christian narcissist every time if you know what to look for.

Scenario #1: When You Need to Set a Boundary 

Narcissists can’t stand being told no.

They honestly believe they are entitled to unrestricted access and control over you, and if you’ve given it to them before, that’s just more justification for their entitlement.

Boundaries threaten their sense of superiority and need for admiration.

It’s like telling a child no; they can’t see beyond their self-centered, immature view of the world that simply wants what it wants when it wants it.

But there’s one key difference between a narcissist and a child, and it’s a scary one.

Unlike a child, a narcissist knows how they come across.

They know what is socially acceptable and unacceptable, so they’ve learned manipulative ways to get their needs met.

If you have ever met a charming or conniving narcissist, you know how easy it is to be fooled by their facade.

So the next time you set limits with someone, whether they are a narcissist or not, avoid over-explaining and avoid justifying.

Simply say, 

“I can’t agree to that,” or 

“I’m not good with that.”

A healthy person will say something like, “Oh, okay, no problem,” and move on, even if they’re disappointed.

But a narcissist will continue to press and pry: 

“Why?” 

“What do you have going on?” 

“All I was asking for was…”

You will be met with manipulative questions designed to guilt you into giving them what they want.

Here’s the key: no matter what question they ask or what statement they make, simply hold your ground with the same response:

 “I can’t agree to that.”

So many people say, “Well, they just didn’t respect my boundaries.” No, you didn’t hold your boundary.

When they continue to press — which they will — they may take a break and try to formulate another line of attack, but they will come back.

At that time, you can ask this question: 

“It seems that you’re only focused on your needs and not mine. Is that intentional?”

Now, I realize this question sounds very cold, and if you’re in a close relationship like a marriage or with a family member, you might hesitate to ask it. But hang in with me, because the next part is crucial and a little fun.

After you’ve asked the question, I want you to sing “Happy Birthday” in your head.

Say nothing and watch their reaction.

Don’t defend yourself and don’t formulate what you’re going to say next. Just sing “Happy Birthday” in your head.

This will give you the breathing room you need to observe what the narcissist does next.

Now, you want to be careful not to make any angry facial expressions, because they will use that against you. Besides, how can you be angry while singing “Happy Birthday”?

As you are silently singing your song, a narcissist will respond in one or all of the following ways.

Number one is rage: 

“How dare you accuse me?” 

“You’re the selfish one. I was just asking.” 

“There’s something wrong with you!”

Number two is victimhood: 

“Oh, this is the thanks I get for trying to work with you?” 

“I don’t know what I did to deserve such abusive treatment.”

“Forget it, never mind.”

Number three is insistence: 

They will continue trying to find a way for you to give them what they want. Alternatively, they may sound healthy at first with a hearty “okay,” only to come back later for round two of boundary stomping. 

No matter what reaction they have, one thing is missing: care and regard for your needs and feelings.

Their only concern is their image and your perception of them.

They’re not going to change their behavior because they genuinely want to change; they may change their behavior simply to alter the perception they give people.

It’s all about perception.

Scenario #2: When You Challenge Their Lies 

If you’ve been with a narcissist for more than 10 minutes, you’ve been lied to.

Lying is second nature to them; they even lie when they don’t have to.

Their lies can be blatant, like telling you a distorted version of the truth, or covert, like exaggerating or omitting pieces of information.

Whether you’re getting flat-out false information or a different version of what they said the day before, there will inevitably come a time when you have to call out a narcissist’s lies.

When you challenge a healthy person on what they said, they will be apologetic and eager to clear up the confusion. Better yet, if they did lie, they’ll admit it and apologize.

Not so with a narcissist.

When you catch them in a lie and realize you’re not getting anywhere, I want you to ask this question: 

“Can you explain why your version of the story contradicts what actually happened?”

This is going to make a narcissist flounder because they prefer to operate on their own terms, where defensiveness, denial, and accusations are served up like a five-star buffet of nonsense.

But you’re wise to them.

Once you ask the question, you guessed it — you’re going to sing “Happy Birthday” quietly in your head.

This keeps your mind occupied and your mouth shut. Here’s what you can expect:

  1. Anger. Anger is often their go-to reaction, which they love to use to intimidate you. 
  2. Denial. Yes, they will flat-out deny having said or done something. If it deflects shame off of them, they’ll deny it. 
  3. Gaslighting. Gaslighting is like denial on steroids. Here, they not only deny what they said, but the focus flips to you — your trust issues, your mental instability, your unforgiveness, and all the things you’ve done in the past.

Again, what’s missing? No desire to clear up the confusion or give you peace of mind, regardless of whether they’re right or wrong.

Scenario #3: When You Refuse to Enable Toxic Behavior

Narcissists thrive in environments where they go unchecked and unchallenged.

But maybe you’re tired of being insulted or treated like a two-year-old in a timeout.

Instead of crying, playing the victim, or begging the narcissist to stop treating you this way, try asking one of these questions: 

“Why do you expect me to prioritize your needs over my own, even when it hurts me?”

 or, 

“Why do you feel it’s acceptable to speak to me this way?”

A healthy person who has simply made a mistake will be quick to catch themselves, repent, and feel terrible about it.

Not a narcissist.

I particularly like this question because if you’re truly dealing with a narcissist, they will actually answer it.

In this case, you likely won’t even have to sing “Happy Birthday.” They will not be able to resist putting you in your place, and their answer will be another version of an insult.

“You deserved it. If you hadn’t [blank], then I wouldn’t have had to talk to you that way.”

These are all solid clues that you are truly dealing with a Christian narcissist.

During this time, you will be so tempted to defend yourself, get angry, curl up in a corner, or engage in some other dysfunctional trait that continues the toxic tango and gives them an excuse to say, 

“See, you’re the problem.”

That is why it is crucial to have these questions handy — even rehearsed — and the strength to sing “Happy Birthday.”

But this introduces another potential problem: if you’re not comfortable with their reactions, you’ll rush in to rescue them and negate the entire test.

Here’s an insider secret: a skilled narcissist will try to outwait you. 

They know you are likely to get uncomfortable with the silence.

Remember, they are masters at the silent treatment, and then they’ll add that snake-like stare.

Don’t fall for it.

You may have to sing “Happy Birthday” six times, but hold firm, my friend.

Part 2: 7 Hidden Signs God is Exposing a Manipulator in Your Life

Now, before we jump into the signs, I want you to imagine this:

You’re in a room that slowly fills with smoke — not all at once, but gradually. So gradually, in fact, that your eyes and lungs adjust, and before long, the air you’re breathing seems normal, even though it’s toxic.

That’s exactly what manipulation does. It doesn’t always show up as screaming or obvious control. It often comes in quietly, wrapped in guilt, coated in charm, and disguised as love.

Today, I’m not talking about the overtly easy-to-spot manipulators that make you duck for cover when you see them coming.

Rather, I’m talking about the slick, sweet ones who seem harmless on the surface. It’s not until years later — maybe after your bank account has been drained and you’re physically, mentally, and emotionally exhausted — that you realize you were played.

Just because the smoke isn’t choking you yet doesn’t mean you’re not being harmed. So let’s walk through seven hidden signs of manipulation so you can step out of the fog and into the light.

Sign #1: They’re Charming, But Deeply Self-centered 

Manipulators often come off as caring, helpful, and even fun, especially in public.

Underneath the charm, however, is a self-serving agenda.

They expect you to meet their needs, soothe their moods, and revolve your life around them and their problems.

In real life, they light up when talking about themselves, but go cold when the topic shifts to your pain.

You may hear subtle remarks about how they have it so much worse. If you don’t give them attention or agreement, they will withdraw affection or punish you with guilt. 

2 Timothy 3:1–2 says, 

“But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days. People will be lovers of themselves.”

These people know how to play you.

Whether they’re playing the short or the long game, there’s always a hidden, self-serving agenda behind their charm.

Sign #2: They’re Emotionally Manipulative

It is a silent control tactic.

Manipulators are masters at exploiting your emotions to keep you under their control.

They know exactly what buttons to push — whether it’s guilt, fear, pity, or silence — to keep you feeling powerless.

Instead of confronting the truth, they manipulate you through your emotions.

Now, before you assume they’re all mean and malicious, be cautious. Some of these manipulators are actually people-pleasers and appeasers, saying exactly what you need to hear to return things to their comfort zone.

They’re not always overtly aggressive; sometimes they disguise their manipulation under a veil of sweetness, pretending to care just enough to reel you back in.

In real life, they may cry to avoid accountability, go silent to punish you, or say things like, 

“Wow, I guess I’m just the worst person ever,” 

turning the tables and making you feel guilty for simply expressing a boundary or a concern.

Watch out for out-of-the-blue comments that dig up past hurts you didn’t even know were there.

This is their way of throwing you off balance and diverting attention away from their toxic behavior.

Psalm 55:21 warns us: 

“Their speech is smooth as butter, yet war is in their hearts; their words are more soothing than oil, yet they are drawn swords.”

Manipulators are experts at identifying your vulnerabilities and weaknesses, then using them to their advantage.

They weaponize your fears in subtle, hurtful ways, knowing exactly how to keep you emotionally unstable.

Don’t be deceived: these manipulators love it when you’re insecure.

They thrive on your self-doubt and rejoice when your self-worth is in ruins.

And before you assume they only tear you down with insults, beware — they also build you up, but only in ways that serve their agenda.

Sign #3: They Lack Empathy, But Fake It Well 

Manipulators are masters at pretending to care, especially when under scrutiny.

They know how to put on a mask of empathy, making it seem like they’re concerned about your well-being.

But this empathy is never genuine; it’s conditional, vanishing as soon as no one is watching, when they’ve gotten what they want, or when it no longer serves their purpose.

When you’re in pain, instead of offering comfort or understanding, they dismiss your feelings, turn the focus on themselves, appear bored, or use your vulnerability against you.

True empathy isn’t just offering kind words when it suits them; it’s being there consistently, especially when you’re hurting.

Manipulators don’t show up when you need them most; they show up when it benefits them, using their version of empathy as a tool for control rather than connection.

1 John 4:20 says, 

“Whoever claims to love God yet hates a brother or sister is a liar.”

Oh, they’ll say they love you, and they’ll feign hurt if you question otherwise. But make no mistake, my friend: true love isn’t self-serving, and it is definitely not deceptively manipulative.

In real life, you might open up about feeling hurt, hoping for a listening ear, and their response is, 

“I’m sorry you feel that way,” 

but nothing changes.

Or worse, they dismiss your pain with, 

“Oh, here we go again with your drama.”

The moment they’re hurt or inconvenienced, however, they expect you to drop everything and give your full support.

This inconsistency leaves you feeling unimportant and emotionally invalidated, reinforcing the trauma bond as their empathy acts as a facade disguised to keep you in line and make you feel like the problem.

Sign #4: They Secretly Devalue You to Feel Superior

To maintain control, manipulators often need to feel morally or intellectually superior to you.

They do this by subtly minimizing your achievements, criticizing your ideas, mocking you, correcting you, or poking fun at you in front of others.

Their judgment isn’t always loud or overt; it’s a constant, subtle undercurrent that erodes your confidence over time.

The goal isn’t just to tear you down, but to elevate themselves in comparison, ensuring you feel smaller, less capable, and less deserving of recognition.

Manipulators see themselves as above others, but because they’re smart enough not to say it outright, they find ways to keep you in a subordinate position by subtly undermining you.

Whether dismissing your accomplishments or belittling your emotions, they ensure you never truly feel seen or appreciated for who you are.

Galatians 6:3 says, 

“If anyone thinks he is something when he is nothing, he deceives himself.”

In real life, you share a win with them, excited about your success, and they say, 

“Well, don’t let it go to your head.”

Or when you express hurt, they deflect by saying, 

“Well, you’re not perfect either.”

They always find a way to one-up you, whether spiritually, emotionally, or intellectually.

Their subtle devaluation is meant to keep you in check so they can always feel one step ahead.

Sign #5: They Live in a False Reality and Expect You to Live There Too

Manipulators often create a distorted version of reality to protect their image and control the narrative.

They lie by omission, spin stories, or twist the truth to make themselves appear to be the victim.

Over time, they build a false narrative that they expect you to either support or stay silent about.

This constant revision of reality is a key tool they use to manipulate others and maintain control.

If you challenge their version of events, they’ll deny, deflect, or act confused, making you question your own perception of the truth.

Isaiah 5:20 says, 

“Woe to those who call evil good and good evil… who are wise in their own eyes…”

In real life, they may tell others that you’ve mistreated them, all while conveniently hiding their own harmful behavior.

They may tell others of their hardships while hiding the irresponsible choices that got them there.

If you confront them, they’ll say things like, 

“I don’t remember saying that,” 

or 

“Oh, you always take things the wrong way,” 

causing you to doubt your memory, your experiences, and even your sanity.

Manipulators feel entitled to what you have and will stop at nothing to get it.

Whether they cry poverty to gain your pity or manipulate your sense of duty, they’ll do whatever it takes to have you foot the bill and support their inflated sense of self-importance.

Their lies and tactics are all about maintaining their grandiosity at your expense.

Sign #6: They Play Dumb and Forgetful

Manipulators have an uncanny ability to dodge responsibility by acting confused or pretending they didn’t understand what happened.

When confronted with their toxic behavior, they downplay their actions or claim they had no ill intentions, leaving you feeling like you’re overreacting.

They may say, 

“I didn’t mean it that way,” 

or 

“I’m so sorry, I didn’t know,” 

when in fact they did know because you told them six times before.

They put on an “I’m so innocent” act to sidestep accountability and gaslight you into questioning your reality.

And it doesn’t stop there; 

They also have a way of forgetting important promises, commitments, responsibilities, or things they’ve said, especially when it serves their narrative.

This selective amnesia is another tool in their arsenal to make you feel like you’re the one who is mistaken, misremembering, or misinterpreting the situation — and being mean about it in the process, because chances are you’re frustrated.

By making you doubt your memory, they create confusion and manipulate you into questioning the very foundation of your interactions with them.

In real life, they may deny promises they’ve made, saying, 

“I never promised that,” 

Or

“I don’t remember saying that.”

When you try to remind them of previous conversations, they deflect and make you feel like you’re fabricating facts or throwing things in their face.

This constant push-and-pull of pretending ignorance and forgetting things erodes your confidence and causes you to second-guess your perception of events. This leaves you emotionally drained and mentally unstable, leading you to expect little to nothing from them in terms of responsibility or commitment.

When that happens, they have successfully avoided responsibility through manipulation.

Let’s remember Matthew 5:37: 

“Let your yes be yes, and your no be no, everything else comes from evil.”

These tactics are not just manipulative; they are spiritually damaging.

When someone denies their actions or shifts blame to you, it creates doubt and frustration while shaking the very foundation of trust in a relationship.

Sign #7: They Win You Over With Sweetness, Then Take Advantage

At first, manipulators come across as overly agreeable, supportive, and charming.

They’re the nice guy or the sweet girl until they know how to win your trust, making you feel comfortable and safe.

Once you’ve lowered your defenses, their true agenda unfolds.

They shift the goalposts and start asking for more of your time, resources, or energy.

Their sweetness becomes a strategic tool to get what they want.

Proverbs 16:8 says, 

“Better a little with righteousness than much gain with injustice.” 

In real life, the nice guy or the sweet girl who seems so easy to get along with suddenly begins to take advantage of your trust.

They’ll push for more of your time and your resources, even your emotional labor, knowing that you’ll feel too guilty to say no. And when you push back and assert your boundaries, they’ll turn the whole situation around to make you feel like you’re being unreasonable or selfish. Or they’ll turn the charm back on and start the game all over again.

And make no mistake, my friend. Everything about a manipulator is a front and fake, and they will expend whatever energy is necessary to maintain that.

Part 3: When God Exposes the Covert Narcissist, Expect THIS Reaction

Now, before we dive into this predictable pattern, I need you to understand how a storm system works.

Have you ever watched a meteorologist report the weather?

They’re calm, 

they’re matter-of-fact, even when a big storm is brewing, 

they don’t track every cloud, 

they don’t get emotional, 

they don’t argue with the storm, 

and they don’t try to convince the storm of the damage it’s going to potentially cause. 

They simply study the pattern. 

And once a certain system forms, they can tell you exactly what’s coming next.

When God exposes the covert narcissist, the reaction that unfolds is the same way.

It’s not personal; it’s patterned.

And just like a storm, once you know what phase you’re in, you can stop panicking and start preparing.

Covert narcissists are notorious for operating under the radar, managing perception, avoiding accountability, and appearing harmless on the surface.

They rely on confusion, subtlety, and plausible deniability all to stay in control.

And just when it looks like they’re going to get away with it, when you’re tempted to think God isn’t going to do anything, he steps in and initiates a pattern they are completely unprepared for.

Phase #1: Storm Formation

The first thing that God does is to bring truth into the open, not loudly, not dramatically, often, quietly and gradually.

You may not confront, you may not say anything new, you may not even fully understand what you’re seeing yet, but something shifts.

Their illusion starts breaking down.

What once felt confusing starts to feel clear for you, confusing for them.

That’s because God now removes secrecy, and truth becomes visible without you forcing it.

And Jesus explains this exact moment in John 3:20; 

“Everyone who does evil hates the light and will not come into the light for fear that their deeds will be exposed.”

God brings light because truth is the foundation of freedom.

He doesn’t expose to humiliate, but rather he exposes to clarify.

Before God ever deals with the behavior, he removes the deception. He does this not only for them but for those around them, so the enabling can stop because you can’t make wise decisions while you’re still operating in confusion.

And this disruption is devastating to the narcissist because in their world control depends on perception, and as long as things stay vague, as long as motives aren’t questioned, and as long as nothing is named, they feel safe.

But when God brings light, that safety starts to crack.

Not because you attacked, but because truth interrupts the illusion they rely on.

At this stage, their reaction might be subtle, but you’ll often see denial, minimizing, feigned confusion, statements like 

“That’s not what’s happening.” 

“You’re reading into things.” 

“You’re different.”

My friend, this isn’t repentance, and it isn’t rage yet. It’s avoidance.

They will sense something is off and do everything in their power to offload it onto you, blame you for why they’re unsettled, project their guilt onto you, or just flat out deny what they sense others can see.

Anything to avoid facing the truth, because light has entered the situation and they don’t like it.

And this is what meteorologists call storm formation.

The sky still looks calm. Nothing dramatic is happening yet, but conditions have shifted beneath the surface. Radar picks up movement long before rain falls, and once a system forms, what follows isn’t personal. It’s patterned.

Phase #2: Storm Intensification 

After God brings truth into the open, the next thing that He does is something that completely rocks their world.

He disrupts control, not by force, not through confrontation, he simply removes leverage.

Others stop chasing, explaining, or fixing their constant issues. And quietly, without a single announcement, the narcissist loses leverage.

They lose leverage over people they could once manipulate, who are no longer under their control.

People who once bought into their victim narrative are no longer buying what they’re selling.

No one is coming to their rescue, no one is buying their stories, and their control begins to slip away.

Scripture describes what happens when control, pride, and self-interest are threatened in James 3:16: 

“For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there will be disorder and every vile practice.”

God disrupts control because control is not leadership, and it is not love.

Anything built on manipulation cannot coexist with truth.

When God removes deception, control loses its foundation. This is where things get really slippery, because they start falling apart.

In the narcissist’s world, control is maintained through emotional pressure, guilt, and subtle obligation. As long as you’re explaining, soothing, rescuing, and managing their emotions, they feel regulated.

When that stops, their internal world destabilizes.

That’s exactly why God kicks out this crutch.

Believe it or not, His hope is not in their destruction, but in their repentance and reliance. He wants them to turn to Him even more than you do.

But since humility is the toughest pill for a narcissist to swallow, they begin to fight, and this is where their reaction becomes more visible.

You’ll see amped-up accusations, guilt-tripping on steroids, emotional escalation where everything becomes dramatized, and my all-time favorite: a sudden victim posture.

Victimhood is often the last refuge of unrepentant pride. You’ll hear statements like, 

“After everything I’ve done for you…”, 

“I’ve always been there for you…”, 

“I can’t believe you’re treating me this way,” 

or 

“Is this how you want us to be? You’ve changed!”

All these accusations will be launched at you like verbal bullets set on auto-fire.

You might be deceived into thinking they’re fighting for the relationship, but this isn’t about reconciliation; it’s about regaining control.

This is the stage meteorologists call storm intensification. Winds pick up, pressure drops, and warnings go out—not because you caused the storm (which is what they’ll have you believe), but because the system is destabilizing.

The storm doesn’t escalate because it’s angry; it escalates because the conditions that once controlled it no longer exist.

Remember this: when control is threatened, disorder follows.

If things feel like they’re suddenly getting worse, it doesn’t mean God has stepped back or given up; it often means the storm is strengthening right on schedule.

Now, if you thought phase two was enough to disrupt their fantasy, wait until you see what God does for the finale.

Phase #3: Storm Impact

This is the phase people don’t expect, but it’s the one God always moves toward.

After control is disrupted, God doesn’t argue or negotiate. He allows fruit to be revealed—not intentions, words, or promises, but fruit.

Under pressure, what is real remains, and what has been held together by manipulation begins to collapse.

This is where separation starts to happen — sometimes emotionally, sometimes relationally, and always very practically.

When I say separation, I don’t necessarily mean a loss of contact, although that is needed sometimes. What I mean is the loss of that false connection. It’s what happens when a relationship can no longer be held together by confusion, guilt, fear, overfunctioning, or emotional management.

First, emotional separation happens: 

You stop absorbing their emotions, managing their moods, and living for their approval.

You may still talk to them, but you’re no longer emotionally fused.

This can also lead to practical separation, not as the primary goal, but as a natural consequence.

Conversations become more factual and less intimate, and you disengage from circular arguments.

The relationship may still exist, but the dynamic that sustained it does not.

This is where their roles collapse, leaving them panicking.

Be careful, though: you may believe their accusation that you’ve become cold or uncaring, but that’s only because clarity has made unhealthy closeness nearly impossible.

Scripture tells us exactly what God is measuring in Galatians 5:22–23: 

“The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.”

God allows this stage because fruit can’t be faked. Words can be managed, an image can be curated, and spiritual language can be performed, but fruit either shows up or it doesn’t.

God does this not to punish, but to protect both you and them.

Remember, God wants them to come to repentance even more than you do; there’s more than just your relationship on the line – there’s their eternity.

It would be wonderful if a narcissist responded favorably to God’s kindness and correction, but unfortunately, here is how they typically react:

In the narcissist’s world, connection has never been mutual; it has been regulatory.

As long as you were close, explaining, accommodating, doubting yourself, giving in, and smoothing things over, they stayed emotionally regulated, but when separation begins, even subtly, they become unhinged.

This reaction becomes unmistakable: you’ll see frantic attempts at image management, blame-shifting, and trying to get as many people on their side as possible.

For them, it was never about the relationship; it was always about management.

This can be the most dysregulating phase for you, especially if you’re struggling with codependency, because all your attempts to do the right thing seem to produce the wrong results.

You might even think, 

“Wow, it might be better to just go back to the way it was. At least that was predictable, manageable, and less volatile.”

Hang in there, friend. God’s not done.

All of this didn’t go sideways because of you; it’s because pressure removed the mask.

This is often the most painful phase, not because you don’t love them, but because the truth becomes undeniable.

This is what meteorologists call landfall.

The storm reveals its strength not because it suddenly became something new, but because pressure exposed what was already there. The damage doesn’t mean the forecast was wrong; it confirms it was right all along.

So, if things feel final here, if distance becomes unavoidable, or if what you hoped would soften instead hardens, remember this: fruit doesn’t collapse under pressure — masks do.

Meteorologists don’t take storms personally. They don’t get offended, argue with them, or blame themselves for the damage. They track patterns and warn people so they can move to safety.

When God exposes a covert narcissist, the reaction you’re seeing isn’t chaos; it’s confirmation.

This isn’t random — it’s patterned.

Seeing God’s predictable pattern for justice is amazing, but wouldn’t it be great if you could spot these wolves in sheep’s clothing before they ruined your life? To learn the signs to spot a Christian narcissist, check out this episode next.

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