You’ve been praying, fighting, and surviving what feels like a never-ending storm with the narcissist in your life. But here’s the truth: God is exposing the narcissist — right now — breaking the demonic hold that’s been keeping you trapped.
In this article, you’ll discover 4 hidden signs your breakthrough may be closer than you think, even if the narcissist hasn’t changed at all. God really can set you free — and you’ll know if He’s already beginning.
Here are the 4 signs God is Exposing the Narcissist:
Sign 1: The Attacks Intensify
Think about a caterpillar inside its chrysalis, transforming into a butterfly. From the outside, it looks like everything is falling apart. The struggle is intense, and it seems like it might not make it. But the breaking, the pressure, the strain — are all signs of transformation.
This is exactly what it feels like when there’s a sudden increase in demonic attacks. The closer you get to your breakthrough, the more the enemy fights to keep you trapped. Arguments may intensify, confusion may cloud your mind, and even your dreams may feel like battlegrounds.
Scripture reminds us in 1 Peter 5:8 that the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. When God begins breaking the narcissist’s grip on you, the enemy grows desperate.
The narcissist may suddenly become more hostile, passive-aggressive, or unpredictable. But remember: Satan’s strategy is to keep your eyes on the narcissist — their words, their actions, their cruelty — so your focus shifts away from God.
Here’s the truth: what feels like the enemy’s strongest hour may actually be God’s sign that your breakthrough is near.
Sign 2: God Gives You Peace
After the storm of attacks, you may suddenly feel an unexplainable peace — even while the chaos continues around you.
It’s like standing in the eye of a hurricane. The storm is raging, but for a moment, you realize you’re not rattled the way you once were. The narcissist may still be acting out, but God is anchoring your soul in His presence.
This is the peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). It’s His way of reminding you, no matter how intense the storm, He is with you.
Hold onto this peace. Guard it. Stay in God’s presence. Let Him be your anchor, not the narcissist’s behavior. As Isaiah 26:3 says, “You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in You.”
Sign 3: You See Things Clearly
Have you ever felt like you were living in a fog — constantly doubting yourself, unsure what’s real, and feeling trapped in a web of lies? That fog begins to lift when God opens your eyes.
Suddenly, you see the manipulation for what it is. You recognize the tactics. You realize what’s truth and what’s deception. It may even shock you to wonder how you didn’t see it sooner.
This is a gift of spiritual clarity and discernment. But be careful — the enemy will try to reintroduce doubt, confusion, and outside voices that contradict what God has revealed. Stay prayerful. Stay rooted in His Word.
When God shines light on deception, it’s not just so you can see the truth — it’s so you can begin to walk in it.
Sign 4: You Awaken to Your Identity in Christ
Many who live under narcissistic control lose sight of who they are. You may have spent years people-pleasing, fearing rejection, or defining your worth by how others treat you. But when God is exposing the narcissist, something shifts.
You awaken to the truth of who you are in Christ:
- God’s child.
- Fearfully and wonderfully made.
- Loved, chosen, and with a purpose.
This revelation strengthens your resolve to break free — not necessarily by leaving immediately, but by refusing to let the narcissist define you anymore.
Your worth is not found in their approval or rejection. It is found in the love and truth of God.
What to Do When You Notice These Signs
Here’s the mistake many of us make: we see the signs, but instead of trusting God, we try to “help Him along.” We rush ahead, take matters into our own hands, and end up making things worse.
Like a mechanic expertly fixing an engine, God knows exactly what He’s doing. When we interfere, we only damage what He’s working on. So step back. Let Him work. Trust His timing.
And above all — pray.
Prayer isn’t a cliché. It’s your weapon in this battle.
Here’s a prayer you can begin with:
Father God,
I come before You, weary and worn from the attacks and confusion I’ve been facing. I’ve felt trapped in control and manipulation, but today, I choose to trust that You are with me and that my freedom is closer than I realize. Open my eyes to the truth, give me clarity in the chaos, and strengthen me with Your peace. Expose the lies of the enemy, and replace them with Your Word. Help me discern Your voice above all others, and give me the courage to follow You. I declare that the enemy’s grip over my life is broken, and I am walking into the freedom You’ve promised me.
Amen.
If you want to take the next step and pray the prayer that stops the narcissist’s tactics dead in their tracks, be sure to check out the next episode here.
