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Signs of a Christian Codependent

From the beginning, God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him” (Genesis 2:18). He created us for relationship.  But when codependency enters the picture, the relationship dynamic can…

How to Guard Your Heart

It's disappointing, heartbreaking, and shocking when someone who says they love you, lets you down. I mean, you asked yourself questions like,  "How did I not see this?"  "How could they do this to me?" And you may even struggle with letting…
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How to Give it to God and Let Go

Do you cast your cares onto the Lord, only to pick them back up again? It can be difficult to give it to God and leave it there. Maybe you feel stuck in a situation that’s getting the better of you. Or maybe it’s a person that’s…
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When Toxic People Use Faith Against You

What to you do when toxic people use faith against you? Have you ever had an argument with someone and suddenly you’re having scripture thrown at you? For many people, this manipulative tactic catches them off guard, because you’re…
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How to Say No to Toxic Family Biblically

Toxic family have a way of making you feel like you owe them something. Whether it’s overt demands or covert manipulation, their requests often leave you feeling more obligated than appreciated.   Perhaps you struggle with a…
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How Did Jesus Handle Narcissists

How would Jesus handle narcissists? When asked, most people (even Christians) would say that Jesus’ main qualities were meekness and mildness—someone who taught us to turn the other cheek when evil is perpetrated against us.   But…
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Signs of a Christian Narcissist

Are you being fooled by a narcissist who calls themselves a Christian? There are signs of a Christian narcissist that you need to watch out for.  When I was younger my mother and my grandmother used to have beautiful bowls of fruit sitting…
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How to Fight Negative Thinking About Someone

Are you a Christian who is struggling with thinking negative thoughts about someone? I’m not talking about the occasional criticism, I’m talking about a constant internal dialog of complaints and judgments. As much as you want to, you…
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How to Forgive Yourself for the Thoughts You Think

Do You Ever Think, “If Someone Knew What I Was Thinking Right Now, They’d Lose All Respect for Me?” We all battle with our thoughts. Maybe you’re fighting thoughts of lust, hatred, or negativity. Maybe you’re struggling with…
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How to Get Rid of a Critical Spirit

There are Two schools of thought amoung christians when it comes to criticism.   The first group  “Says judge not lest you be judged” (matthew 7:1) The second group says “call it out” Matthew 18:15) While both are true, both…