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How to Train Your Brain to Trust God When Things Go Wrong

Last week, my website got hacked. Every piece of material I’ve ever written was deep within those web walls. It was there one day and the next, poof! Gone.Talk about a horrible feeling. It’s worse than having my purse stolen.   My…
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Where Do Toxic Thoughts Come From?

Where Do Toxic Thoughts Come From? Do you feel like your thoughts spiral out of control? Do the same thoughts circle over and over again in your mind? Thoughts come at us on an average of 60,000 per day—most of them that suck the life…
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How to Have Peace Without Being Passive

How do you get peace when your mind feels like a pinball machine? Pinball may be fun to play in an arcade, but it’s no fun when it feels like each thought is like an out of control ball bouncing around in your head. There is a big misconception…
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How to Build Confidence God's Way

If you had all the confidence you needed, how would your life be different right now?   What would be different in your career?   How would your relationships change? So many people could benefit from having…
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3 Surprising Benefits of Negative Thinking

Can you expect to think negative thoughts about yourself, your spouse, and your situation and expect to be happy?   No, that’s not possible.   But is all negative thinking bad? Believe it or not, there are…
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How Not to Care What People Think

I have met two types of people in my years as a coach: Those who let their fears hold them back and they live a life of frustration. Those who pretend they don’t care what others think and live a life of lies. Neither…
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What To Do When Someone Does You Wrong

Have you ever been let down by someone? I mean royally hurt by the very person you thought was your ride or die.   No one gets through life without being let down. Sometimes we’re unintentionally hurt by the mistakes…
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How to Break Up With Anxiety and Get Your Life Back

Anxiety can rob you of peace and joy. After all, it’s not possible to continually think negative thoughts about yourself and your situation and expect to be happy. But when anxiety isn’t dealt with properly, it can grow into…
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How To Set Boundaries With a Toxic Mother

As a counselor and coach, I’ve see women negatively affected by toxic mothers in my practice more than any other hurdle they encounter in life. And nearly every time, I witness these women expecting their bad mothers to miraculously…
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3 Lies You’re Probably Telling Yourself Without Realizing It

Have you ever wondered why your life hasn’t turned out the way you expected? Is it bad luck? Or someone else’s fault? Or God’s plan? In my counseling and coaching of women I have seen that there are three subtle lies that…